*takes a deep breath* AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. *sigh* ^.^ Wow, haven't screamed for a long time o.O. ********************************************************************************** Since I end up being emotional on quite a bit of stuff for the past maybe 10 minutes, it messed up all my concentration so I only got some of the questions on Crystal's page answered. WHY? Exactly why does everyone go through sadness in their lives? Sadness and happiness is what everyone experiences, and other emotions in between. A mix of this gives experience to who you are and to how you act. Without them, we will not mature and be who we are. Why is there not an exact solution to forget about our sadness and move on?
These memories give us experience to what to do and not to do again. We will be able to move on, but there is not really a way for us, but it can just become a memory where you can later be happy again just from that sadness. If you really want to forget, you might as well have to get a brainwash (which is >.< to me). Why can't people cherish what they have in front of them?
People will at one time or another cherish what they have in front of them. With the American society, it’s a bit less possible to learn that, since everything can be bought by money so we end up getting more and more each day, without knowing or caring what will happen to the other who are less fortunate. It is when people are at their limits and downfall where they will find this cherishment more. Why is annoyance such a pain?
Annoyance is a pain. I can tell a lot of time I have annoyed people without knowing. People have annoyed me before, and I rarely got mad about it. It’s bound to exist, cause everyone’s different and talks or acts differently to others around them. It is rather you can have patience with them and talk about it or “they’re just annoying” and ignore them. Why can't people see that life is as easy as it seem?
Life isn’t easy. If it easy, I think it would have been paradise every day so I don’t have to worry about grades, love life, competition, this and that, etc, etc, etc. I think everyone would have been given to me. Life is hard, which makes everyone different in every way, a variety I may say. Why do people assume that they know everything in the world when in turn they just stupid?
I know I talk a lot and so on, and may seemingly answer quite a bunch of questions just like that, but I know for sure, I am not taking it as I know everything in the world. I have done it from how I thought of it; and I usually have second thoughts about an hour later about it (and end up sometimes thinking my first assumption was pretty much wrong). People are in some way a “know-it-all” but yet are stupid. I think they mostly did it from how they see the question. If they got it wrong and someone corrected them and they say that they’re right is when they are really stupid, because the other person may know the real thing more. I think this also works up if you’re annoyed with the person also. Why is it that people who are angry put their anger on the next closest person they can find?
Fast relief I guess. People just try to get out the frustration before they even know it cause they were so fustrated. Why does backstabbing sometimes make people happy?
Competition is put upon each person every day. There’s also why does people always assume they know everything about that person but they don't? Why do people always badmouth people when they don't think about the consequences or relate to themselves about it?
HOW?
How can I be perfect in the eyes of the people around me? I think each person is different. What some of us presume as perfect may be imperfect to the eyes of others. Being a perfect may not mean being you at most cases (I would guess, depending again on each person). Just be yourself; that is how they know you; you may make some mistakes at times, but will be learned through time and can be changed. And there is not really anyone that is straight perfect, unless you’re a robot. How is it that people you care the most about turn on u the next day?
How can life be so foolish? Life is foolish if you think it is. Life is not foolish when you think it’s not. It’s life; it can be foolish but yet funny in a good way. Life can also be great but serious in a bad way. Life can be many different things that even a thousand works can’t explain, cause it’s life, good or bad. How are we supposed to move on when things are simply just holding you back? I would say time take into account for this question. If there is no time, there is no place for recovery.
How can we do the things we do and still don't satisfy our needs? The things we do don’t always correspond on what we want, but yet are connected. I think it is what in return that we don’t get that our needs is not satisfied. What we do each day may benefit us, but also for other people. Sometimes, other people will have to give a bit in return. It is when we do things that give too much that we might not be satisfied afterwards because there was no reward.
How do we set goals that will just be ruined in the future anyways? Goals, in my opinion, are a way for people to be able to move along day by day. Goals may be ruined in the future, but yet, they at least helped you move along in what you want to do each day. Without goals, there will be nothing worth doing; unless you just want to sit there every single day. Many-a-times, goals are reset to suit us that we could be able to fulfill each day with at least what we need to do or would want to do. How can we say the things we do and not regret for saying them?
For me, it’s like very hard but yet somewhat easy in a way. I’ve said things and regret them, and then feel bad about it for a very long time for no reason, and the chain goes on. But to answer that question, I would say to think it over before you say it. But take notice, what you might want to say but don’t can also lead to other How come your heart hurts so much when u become sad?
As so, we are taught our feelings come from our heart. I don’t really know why our heart does that but I do know one thing, our hearts knows when we’re happy and sad, it becomes part of our experience and we learn from the feelings of our hearts; that is how life and emotions are interesting, from all excitement and pain. …, I don’t think I really answer that question.
How can u say that nothing is wrong when actually there is? I guess it’s like me saying “I know how to act”, but I know for sure I don’t. It takes up a lot of effort to really say that there is nothing wrong. It all quitely depends on how good you are good at hiding stuff and not showing your emotions; but if you hide too much and not show your emotions, you can get “sickness” of emotionless (forgot what it’s called).
How come death is the most scariest thing everyone can think of? Death is the end off life. In biological ways, no one wants to die, and they go on and reproduce and so forth; mainly part of the human mechanism. Death may be the scariest thing, but people think of it too much as it didn’t matter; emotions takes too much part in it, including stress, this and that, and then thinks too much about themselves. I find it very surprising though how my answers can turn 180 degrees whenever I have some kind of emotional crisis. T.T I'll answer rest of the questions later when I have a clear mind ^.^ |